Date night lingerie, date night outfits, and even date night underwear-as-outerwear all share one thing in common: they make you feel sexy, and seen. That is exactly the vibe we hope for on any good date, whether it’s the first, third or special date night several years into your relationship.

At Boux, we love putting together sexy outfit ideas for the date night itself, and for when you get back home to slip into something even sexier. Perhaps you’re feeling extra resourceful and are keen to explore some transitional sexy date outfits with matching lingerie sets that alluringly preview the lingerie look you intend to reveal later.

With Valentine’s Day on the horizon, invest in the sexy lingerie and sexy nightwear that makes you feel the (self) love, so you can project that hot stuff when the day (and night) of romance arrives.  


There’s a sexy outfit, then there’s an outfit you feel sexy in. It’s a subtle difference, but at Boux we believe that you look sexiest when your natural confidence shines through. Your date will know they’ve struck gold when they sit down opposite you wearing the ‘fit that makes you feel, well, fit!

For understated sensuality, nothing beats a satin chemise with a pair of high-denier tights. A long-standing Boux customer favourite is the Amelia satin chemise. Its clean lines and lace trim get a pastel-hued update in the all-new duck egg blue, but there are five other shades too so you can find the ones that’s so you.

Going for more of a jeans and heels knees up? Dating, married or otherwise, we love what the Diamante satin cami pyjama set has to say when you style the top as part of your date night look. The cami’s split open back is as sexy as it is pretty, with a frill panel matching the front hem. A diamante heart at the cut-away bust says ‘I love me’: just the kind of confidence guarantee to clinch the deal.

For a sweet style in candy pink, consider the Nicolette longline basque bra the ultimate transitional date night outfit. The padded cups, boned body with floral lace, and mesh panels make a stunning lingerie top with the detachable suspender ends removed. Pair with low-rise jeans to show off the frill hem and basque style back. When you’re ready to move onto the after(date)-party, reattach the suspenders and reveal Nicolette tanga briefs and Nude plain top hold ups to really get your date’s heart racing.

While longline bras have long made an inspired double act in date night outfits, the babydoll as a longline top is a sexy outfit idea fresh out of 2024. We love this wired Cherry flock sheer babydoll and thong, perfect for layering over leggings or jeans. Your boudoir transformation couldn’t be swifter; you’re one clothing item away from complete and utter wow.

No seductive outfits compilation is complete without a bodysuit, and we have two you’ll struggle to keep secret until Valentine’s Day. The Bouxtique Vivian body combines padded, opaque cups with sheer lace edging and see-through panels, plus a bold backless design. Your night-out wardrobe will never be the same, and your date will never forget your entrance. We’ll call you both winners.

If you dare to go more sheer still, try layering the elegant Mollie body under a sheer long-sleeved shirt. It’s winter, and it’s a little wild yet wonderfully seductive. Wait for the big reveal when you finally get to showcase the floral lace, spotted mesh, and scalloped trim: so many textures, your date won’t be able to keep their hands off you.


Whether you’re headed back home for an outfit change, or staying in to celebrate Valentine’s Day, these are the bedroom outfits guaranteed to make the sexiest splash.  

The best of ‘chilled night in’ vibes and sensational seductress, the Monique satin heart embroidered short pyjama set has it all. From the tie-up bralette to the liquid satin against the heart-embroidered mesh, to the frill detail at the bust and the lace-accented cheeky shorts, wear this when you want to steal the show (which is always, right?).

For a sexy night in at theirs, something a little more formal like the Freddie body may fit the bill. The sheer floral lace, backless cutout, plunge neckline and strappy waist have all the makings of a night of seduction. Pair with your cosiest lounge trousers and pretend you hadn’t the slightest clue this was the case. Or, own it and let them know you have them in the palm of your hand.

For signature Freddie styling in even more versatile separates, also check out the Freddie balconette bra (that underwired partial cup is sensational) and matching cut-away Freddie briefs.

For feminine separates rocking the current trend of sheer lingerie, the Maria balconette bra with its heart and flower embroidered hot pink mesh has every detail in check. Wearing the Maria tanga briefs, Maria suspender belt and Nude plain top hold ups, you will too.

While February may be early for spring flowers, it’s never too early for love to blossom. Our brand new Flora balconette bra offers a romantic, less structured style with an underwired cup, pastel blue mesh and tonal pink-and-blue flower embroidery.  It makes a very pretty pairing (we can’t get enough of the barely there floral edging) with the Flora tanga briefs and Flora suspender belt.

 Ready to take control of your next date night? Show off your (self)-worth and embrace your power! We want to see you own it over on Insta, using #myboux.